A Letter to My Always Father

Dear Heavenly Father, my Papa,

Happy Father’s Day to You–my always Father!

You have always been so faithful to me.

You have always loved me with an everlasting love.

You’ve never harmed me. You’ve always kept me safe.

You’ve never abandoned me. You’ve always held me in Your grip.

You’ve never abused the ones I love. You’ve always reached out to them with tender love and mercy.

You’ve never spoken evil or perverse words to me. You’ve always spoken to me words of Truth and Life.

You’ve never been about satisfying Your own needs. You’ve always provided and cared for mine sacrificially.

You’ve never said “I love you” and then shown me otherwise. You’ve always loved me faithfully and truly.

You’ve never been a coward to me. You’ve always shown up when I needed it, proving to be my Hero.

You’ve never had to apologize. You’ve always treated me flawlessly.

You’ve never abused me. You’ve always been my shelter.

You have always loved me with an everlasting love.

You have always been so faithful to me.

Happy Father’s Day to You–my always Father!

I’ll Love You Forever,

Your Always Daughter

 

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Love’s Friends

http://www.dreamstime.com/stock-photo-heart-ornament-image17723090One of the things I cherish most about the Bible is how it sets itself apart from our natural view of right living, of morality and wisdom and love.

Even though I know better, I still love a good Hollywood romance (the clean kind), as well as the notion that when people love each other, it should feel good…right. It should come natural.

But it doesn’t always.Rarely so.

“And it is my prayer that your love may abound more and more, with knowledge and all discernment…” Phil 1:9

In a nutshell, biblical love is always good friends with Knowledge and Discernment, and there’s always room to grow. With growth comes growing pains. And anyone who is close to me knows I’m comfort-driven and I’d prefer to have pain as far away from me as possible.

Once again it boils down to Truth-filled, Christ-centered faith. Do I pray for knowledge and discernment to accompany my love for others? When the Lord gives them to me, do I act on them no matter the cost or pain? Do I prefer the comfort of false peace and surface love or do I desire His higher call?

“And it is my prayer that your love may abound more and more, with knowledge and all discernment, so that you may approve what is excellent, and so be pure and blameless for the day of Christ, filled with the fruit of righteousness that comes through Jesus Christ, to the glory and praise of God.” Philippians 1:9-11

As the Lord has encouraged me to walk in this Truth this morning, I pray the same for all of us who desire to depend on and abide in Him more fully. If we long to love the Lord’s way, we must remember to invite Love’s friends along too. We may not enjoy their company at first, but little by little, by the grace of God, our hearts will make room for them to live for good.

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The Death of me

http://www.dreamstime.com/stock-photos-woman-emoticon-image16904953I’d had it up to here with all three of my teens. I’m not sure exactly where “here” is, but I was ready to take a taxi someplace else. The negative thoughts my brain was racking up were hitting record levels. I know better than to type them outloud on this platform. The sentence I fumed that stopped me cold in my tracks, however? “These kids are gonna be the death of me!”

I shut the bedroom door behind me, managing to do so without a slam, then I sat down in my Bible reading chair with those words echoing through my mind. “The Death of me.” It hit me that the death of me was exactly what was in order.

“He must become greater; I must become less.”

How many times have I prayed that Scripture? How many times have I asked the Lord to be front and center in my day, in my life as a wife and mom, only to slip into thick of self by noon time?

“He must become greater & greater; I must become less.”

I think that sometimes what I forget is that this message, ironically enough, isn’t really about me at all. It’s about His greatness, His mercy & grace & love, which is unfathomable. He knows our thoughts are futile and that we humans are but dust. The more I focus on Him, the more my heart is filled with gratitude. The more I read His Word through the lense of His character, the more I make it about His ability to accomplish His will in and through me instead of my own performance. The more I pray with the right focus & motive, the less frustrated I get when circumstances don’t meet my expectations. As a matter of fact, as He becomes my great expectation, the less I place unrealistic expectations on others.

The Lord knows we may need to do this about face in our thinking several times a day. I think that’s why the old praise song causes me to spill a tear every time I sing it: “Turn your eyes upon Jesus, look full in His wonderful face. Then the things of earth will grow strangely dim, in the Light of His glory and grace.”

Colossians 3 is always a good place to do just that, especially in light of verse 3: “For you died, and your life is now hidden with Christ in God.” And as we continue to dig into His Word, the Lord even gives us practical ways to do so. Like in Romans 8:6: “For to set the mind on the flesh is death, but to set the mind on the Spirit is life and peace.”

Thank the Lord, in His sovereignty and goodness, that He knows exactly what will be the death of me. And He doesn’t let me escape from it. No, He loves me too much for that.

“He must become greater & GREATER…”

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Blog-Walking Season

I love to write. I love to journal & communicate. I love God talk & meaningful faith conversation. Blogging has always been such a great outlet for me, an extra way to process & sort out life. And if it ministers to someone else, then that’s a bonus blessing.

But I don’t get to do it as much as I used to. I’m in more of a walking blog season. The majority of my communicating, processing, learning, encouraging & ministering is happening live & for real with the warm bodies on my path, mostly in my own home.

And you know, as much as I love blogging online, I have to say that I’m enjoying this less online season even more. I’m thankful for these moments to encourage and be encouraged by my husband & children, my church family, my kids’ friends & their families, the grocery store clerks (for my several times a week grocery runs to stock the pantry), and all the unexpected blessings & issues that arise as a result of engaging with them. I miss being more a part of the blogging community, but it just isn’t a blog hopping season.;) By the time I get back to it, blogs probably won’t even exist anymore. Everything’s always a changin.’

I hope you read this in the spirit which it is intended. This isn’t a pompous thing, or even an admonition for people to be online less, though sometimes we need that. There are seasons when online and live ministry exist hand-in-hand, & it’s entirely possible to keep priorities in order at the same time. I still get to spend small slices of time on my Facebook ministry page, and that’s a good outlet for now.

God’s Word says that the most important way for us to live is to love the Lord our God with all of our hearts, souls, minds & strength, & to love our neighbors as ourselves. For me right now, that means less blogging online, less submissions to magazines & publishers, fewer speaking events (though I take them if it fits the schedule), less blog hopping, even less time reading good books. But I look forward to slices of time to get the creative juices flowing and my typing fingers going. I actually appreciate those more than ever.

What season are you in right now & how is it keeping Him & others front & center? I’d love to hear, so please take a moment to share.

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Bridge of Faces

I’ve been saturated in the topic of true fellowship, community, the Church for many months while preparing to speak & teach on “The One Anothers of Scripture” for a women’s retreat. I shuffled back through some of my old files since I’d spoken on the necessity of friendship and mom bonds last year. In doing so, I came across an old creative piece I’d written for Faithwriters.com back in 2008. It is a tribute to people in the Church who made significant contributions to my life & person. I wanted to share it here, & I hope it sparks memories & praises of those God has placed along your journey as a Christian. Please share those in the comments as you feel led.

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It’s not your ordinary bridge. This one isn’t made of stone or wood or even popsicle sticks. Stretching across the walls of my heart is a bridge of faces—a collage of some of the people who have stood in the gap for me through the low times of my life.

Sunday School Teacher, you thought you were only teaching me the Who Did Swallow Jonah song. Sure, I remember, “Whale did swallow Jonah.” (Though as an adult I’ve learned that it was actually a big fish instead). Do you know when you really captured my heart? It was the Sunday that you told me I was smart. Up until then, I thought I was stupid. At least that’s what my dad always told me.

There you were, leaning over me with a smile, showing me a pathway from the island of Nothingness to the solid ground of Somethingness. At every turn, you reminded me that my life had promise and potentiality. You were a bridge of hope for me, Sunday School Teacher.

I’ll never forget the sermon on being a living sacrifice at church camp. The chaplain didn’t know that I already was one, though maybe not in the way he was referring. I was stuck in the sinking ground of self-sacrifice, the kind that others trampled on like a doormat. Perplexed, I didn’t dare speak up, but Camp Counselor, you saw right through me. While other ministry leaders were focused on curfews and clean cabin competitions, you cared most about de-cluttering my heart’s confusion.

Shedding light in the darkness, you paved the way from the island of Codependency to the solid ground of Freedom. Camp Counselor, you were a bridge of truth for me.

Oh, Pastor’s Wife, if you only knew. While your husband spoke messages on people using their gifts for the glory of God, you—YOU were the one who tapped me on the shoulder and actually begged me to use my own. “Who, Me?” I asked. Until that moment, I honestly thought the Pastor was preaching to someone else…maybe the choir.

Looking me straight in the eye with a persuasive sparkle, you told me that I had a gift, and I must use it to help the younger kids who “looked up to me.” The younger kids look up to ME? I hope you know, Pastor’s Wife, that you helped me cross the ocean from the island of “Who, Me?” to the solid ground of “Yes, YOU!” You were a bridge of confidence for me.

And Mentor, would it hurt your feelings if I admitted that I can’t remember your name? I have a feeling that being known was never important to you. Even as a busy mom of three, you took the time to reach out to me in my single college days. I just want you to know, precious woman, that while I was struggling—desperately fighting between the still voice of Truth and the mocking voice of lies—you were there, praying the Word of God in my ear. You reminded me to wait on the Lord, that His timing was best and that the way of purity would not return to me empty or void.

So thank you, Mentor. Though I limped over it, you were a walkway from the island of Passion to the solid ground of Purity. You were a bridge of holiness for me.

As I reflect on this hodge-podge of faces, (and there are many more), I pray that my face is etched on the collage of someone else’s heart. May I help a child to feel smart and significant, a youth to see his potential, a teen to know she is known, or a younger woman to sense my concern for her purity and value as a daughter of the King. If I allow God, how will He use me to bridge the gap for someone stuck in a mud puddle of lies?

It’s definitely not your ordinary bridge. Not only is it made up of people, but also…when I see the frame upon which they are standing, it is the most extraordinary image of all: the nail-pierced hands of Jesus—extended—marking a narrow path from Sin to Everlasting Life. He has been the One holding the bridge together all along, moving in the hearts of His people to lead the way.

“And I will give you shepherds after My own heart, who will guide you with knowledge and understanding.”
Jeremiah 3:15 (NLT)

“…And in Him all things hold together.”
Colossians 1:17b (NIV)

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For the Overtaxed One…

Tax: n. A burdensome or excessive demand; a strain.

Are You Taxed Out? If so, this one’s for you.

If you were to write a tax letter to the Lord instead of the IRS, would it be similar to this?

April 15th, 2013

Dear Lord,

I’m tired. I’m drained. I’m burdened. All the things I don’t want to be & feel I shouldn’t be as a Christian. I am, though.

What an ironic day for me to realize this, but…I’m overtaxed.

Could you…wait, I know You can

…Would You please give me a tax break? Just long enough for me to come up for air? I don’t mean to beg, but please?

I do love You, Lord. I do. I have only good intentions, but I’m weary, Lord. I believe. Help me overcome my unbelief.

Hangin’ by a hair,
Your child

P.S. I trust in Your unfailing love & sovereign grace, even in my weakness.

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April 15th, 2013

Dear child,

Yes. My tax breaks are always available for you, though you may need a different perspective. Listen to what I’ve written.*

“The Word is very near you; it is in your mouth and in your heart so you may obey it.”

“The LORD himself goes before you and will be with you;
He will never leave you nor forsake you.”

“Come to me, all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest.
Take my yoke upon you and learn from Me,
for I am gentle and humble in heart,
and you will find rest for your souls.”

“Do you not know?
The LORD is the everlasting God…He will not grow tired or weary,
and His understanding no one can fathom.
He gives strength to the weary and increases the power of the weak.
Even youths grow tired and weary, and young men stumble and fall;
but those who hope in the LORD will renew their strength.
They will soar on wings like eagles;
they will run and not grow weary,
they will walk and not be faint.”

So…yea. This was written for you, my precious child. For this tax day, and every other moment too.

Holding you tight,
Your Abba Father

PS.
“I have told you these things, so that in Me you may have peace. In this world you will have trouble. But take heart! I have overcome the world.” **

*Deuteronomy 30:14, 31:8, Matthew 11:28-29, Isaiah 40:28-31
** John 16:33

“Praise be to the Lord, to God our Savior,
who daily bears our burdens. Selah”
Psalm 68:19

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Restoration

My ah-mazing hubby just re-did our master closet. I mean, reDID it. I so wish I had taken a before shot. Lemme just tell you it was DISGUSTING. Not in the sense that it wasn’t updated (which it wasn’t), but mainly because we had totally crammed it full & let it go. Throughout the last several years, it had gotten messier & yuckier & fuller & yea.

But it is so functional & organized now. I still have stuff to go through & get rid of, maybe shift around a bit, but it makes me want to now, you know?

I’m sure the analogy breaks down somewhere, but I can’t help thinking this is sometimes similar to the cubby holes & closets in our hearts where we stuff “stuff” away. The longer it is left hidden and unmaintained, the messier & yuckier it gets.

I don’t want my spiritual life to exist that way, though admittedly, sometimes it has and does. The more I know God, not only do I revere Him, but I also trust Him…trust His handling of me & His love to purge out what isn’t needed or is causing disorder and distraction from His very best plan.

So my prayer for me & for you today is that we would surrender our everything to God, even that messy & shameful stuff which we think we’ve stowed away and shut the door on (though God sees all). That we’d be able to personalize the following Truths with our whole hearts…so that we can be restored, even if little bit by bit, one piece at a time:

Create in me a clean heart, O God, and renew a right spirit within me. Psalm 51:10, NIV

Behold, You desire truth in the innermost being, And in the hidden part You will make me know wisdom. Psalm 51:6, NASB

May God himself, the God of peace, sanctify you through and through. May your whole spirit, soul and body be kept blameless at the coming of our Lord Jesus Christ. The One who calls you is faithful, and He will do it. 1 Thessalonians 5:23-24, NIV

And after you have suffered a little while, the God of all grace, who has called you to his eternal glory in Christ, will Himself restore, confirm, strengthen and establish you. 1 Peter 5:10, ESV

Confess your sins to each other and pray for each other so that you may be healed. The earnest prayer of a righteous person has great power and produces wonderful results. James 5:16, NLT

If we confess our sins, He is faithful and righteous to forgive us our sins and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness. 1 John 1:9, NASB

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People, Not Projects at the Internet Cafe

Visit the Internet Cafe to read my post this month: We’re A People, Not A Project

“Let’s ask the Lord to show us how to love and serve people as people, not projects–or even parts of bigger projects. Relationships, not rungs on the ladder. Loved ones, precious ones, valued ones. Not those we neglect or forget when we’re busy with other projects. Not those that we pay more attention to as they make us feel more important or successful, or those we shove aside when it gets hard. Not that person to whip into shape or fix their faith. We are not here to create followers and fans, or friends who are part of our well-laid plans. Relationships are supposed to be mutual. They are most rich when they are reciprocal.”

Read the rest at the Internet Cafe

http://internetcafedevotions.com/2013/03/were-a-people-not-a-project/

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Wider Perspective

I went to the “Revive Tour” with Nancy Leigh DeMoss the other night. God spoke a powerful message through her about true revival from Isaiah 40:1-5.

The last few days I’ve camped out in Isaiah 40 as I’ve continued to chew on what I learned. It’s a long chapter, but it really takes my perspective from the dailyness of life (though God is in every slice of it) and puts it smack center on the majesty, greatness & awesomeness of our God. Please, PLEASE, carve some moments out of your Bible reading time to pore over it.

Here’s just a FEW of the verses that have stared me down, causing Him to become greater in my view:

“Do you not know? Have you not heard? Has it not been declared to you from the beginning?
Have you not understood from the foundations of the earth?
It is He who sits above the circle of the earth, & its inhabitants are like grasshoppers,
Who stretches out the heavens like a curtain & spreads them out like a tent to dwell in.”

“To whom then will you liken Me that I would be his equal?” says the Holy One.
Lift up your eyes on high & see who has created these stars, The One who leads forth their host by number;
He calls them all by name;
Because of the greatness of His might & the strength of His power, not one of them is missing.”

And yet this magnificent, powerful God is the same One that invites us to call Him “Abba, Father, Friend.” That just blows me away! Truly.

The chapter moves on to the fact that He understands us & strengthen us. He just never ceases to amaze me.

“The Everlasting God, the LORD, the Creator of the ends of the earth does not become weary or tired. His understanding is inscrutable. He gives strength to the weary, and to him who lacks might He increases power.
Though youths grow weary & tired, & vigorous young men stumble badly, Yet those who wait for the LORD will gain new strength; they will mount up with wings like eagles, they will run & not get tire, they will walk & not become weary.”

Need a new perspective? Prod, pray & ponder through Isaiah 40…

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A Brief & Direct Call

Don’t think you have to speak from a pulpit, write a book or serve in another country to minister to people (though those are awesome ministries).

The most important ministry work is genuinely loving & humbly serving the people God has placed in your path…your family, friends, neighbors, coworkers, church members & staff, classmates…that same clerk at the grocery store or restaurant counter,etc…& as time remains or He specifically opens doors, use the gifts, talents & passions God has given you to go elsewhere.

It’s so important for us to remember the order of things, which of course, starts w/ loving the Lord.

Psalm 86:11 (NIV)
11 Teach me Your way, Lord, that I may rely on Your faithfulness; give me an undivided heart, that I may fear Your name.

Matthew 22:37-40 (NIV)
37 Jesus replied: “‘Love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your mind.’ 38 This is the first and greatest commandment. 39 And the second is like it: ‘Love your neighbor as yourself.’ 40 All the Law and the Prophets hang on these two commandments.”

Philippians 1:9-11 (NIV)
9 And this is my prayer: that your love may abound more and more in knowledge and depth of insight, 10 so that you may be able to discern what is best and may be pure and blameless for the day of Christ, 11 filled with the fruit of righteousness that comes through Jesus Christ—to the glory and praise of God.

Titus 2:4-5 (NIV)
4 Then they can urge the younger women to love their husbands and children, 5 to be self-controlled and pure, to be busy at home, to be kind, and to be subject to their husbands, so that no one will malign the word of God.

Psalm 78:5-7 (NIV)
5 He decreed statutes for Jacob and established the law in Israel, which he commanded our ancestors to teach their children, so the next generation would know them, even the children yet to be born, and they in turn would tell their children. 7 Then they would put their trust in God and would not forget his deeds but would keep his commands.

Galatians 5:13 (NIV)
13 You, my brothers and sisters, were called to be free. But do not use your freedom to indulge the flesh; rather, serve one another humbly in love.

Galatians 6:10 (NIV)
10 Therefore, as we have opportunity, let us do good to all people, especially to those who belong to the family of believers.

Colossians 4:5 (NIV)
5 Be wise in the way you act toward outsiders; make the most of every opportunity.

James 1:5 (NIV)
5 If any of you lacks wisdom, you should ask God, who gives generously to all without finding fault, and it will be given to you.

(Also read Eph 5, 1 Tim 3 & 5…the list goes on & on)

The Lord has been fleshing this message out in my life for the past several years now…it’s been unbelievably harder than I would have ever imagined, but it is Truth nonetheless. He has supplied me not only with the power & wisdom needed to make new choices & changes, but also with peace deep down inside. And though I continue to learn, sometimes taking 3 steps forward & two steps back, I’m relying on Him more & more. Glad & grateful you are alongside me on the journey.

The One who calls us is faithful, & HE will surely do it!!! (1 Thess 5:24)

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